Couples Retreat
Where safety meets intimacy. Where presence becomes connection.
November 21-23, 2025 | Chesterfield, VA
This isn’t another “romantic getaway.”
This is medicine for your relationship.
For three days, join Jessica + Brian Barz as they
guide you back into safety, connection, and
intimacy—together.
Only 8 couples will step into this space.
Will you be one of them?
Come Home to Each Other
Most couples don’t need more “date nights.”
They need nervous systems that feel safe in each other’s presence.
When stress, survival mode, and life’s weight build up—intimacy suffers. You start bracing instead of breathing, drifting instead of connecting.
This retreat is where you return to each other.
Where the walls come down.
Where you remember how it feels to be a team—deeply, fully, unapologetically.
Led by a Couple, for Couples
Two Practitioners. Two Perspectives. One Embodied Experience.
You won’t just be guided by one lens.
You’ll experience the balance of masculine and feminine, structure and flow, safety and expression.
Jessica brings expertise in nervous system regulation, somatic embodiment, and SoulFlow™ facilitation. As a Somatic Practitioner, Registered Nurse, and veteran, she blends sharp clinical insight with deep, trauma-informed presence. Her work is rooted in guiding people out of survival mode and into embodied safety, truth, and expansion. With fierce compassion and a gift for holding space, Jessica helps couples dissolve old patterns, reconnect with their bodies, and remember the medicine that already lives within them.
Brian brings grounded leadership, relational insight, somatic practice rooted in strength and compassion, and the lived experience of navigating real-life challenges as a partner and father. As a Somatic Practitioner, he holds space with steady presence and an unwavering commitment to truth. His work supports couples in breaking through walls of stress and disconnection, while building trust, safety, and deeper intimacy. With a balance of strength and softness, Brian creates a space where couples feel seen, supported, and empowered to step fully back into partnership.
Together, they’ll guide you to see each other more clearly, hear each other more deeply, and feel each other more fully.
the experience
What awaits you
soulflow™️ Sessions
Guided practices to soften your bodies and reawaken the safety beneath your connection.
Morning yoga
Gentle movement to open each day guest yoga instructor - Shannon
somatic practices
Embodied work from both Jessica + Brian to regulate your nervous systems and expand intimacy.
Connection & Intimacy PracticeS
Practical and soulful ways to rebuild trust, presence, and passion.
Teamwork Tools
Embodied strategies to navigate challenges (like the holidays) side by side, not apart.
Group reflections
Guided space to integrate the day’s practices, deepen understanding, and anchor new ways of being together.
Retreat Essentials
📍 Location: Chesterfield, VA (private retreat setting)
📅 Dates: November 21–23, 2025
💸 Investment: $1777 per couple
✨ VIP Upgrade: $2332 — includes VIP dinner and post retreat somatic session (PLUS more) with Brian + Jessica for a bonus experience you won’t find anywhere else. (Only 3 VIP spots available)
This is not a conference.
This is not a crowded event.
It’s an intimate gathering for 8 couples only.
Because the kind of depth we’re creating here requires presence, safety, and space.
When the seats are gone—they’re gone.
Who This Is For
This retreat is for couples who:
- Feel life pulling them apart and want to come back together
- Crave nervous system safety as the foundation of intimacy
- Want to feel like a team again—in every sense of the word
- Are ready to invest in their relationship, not just “get by”
This Is Your Moment
This is your invitation to stop surviving side by side— and start living, breathing, and loving from a place of truth, safety, and connection.
For three days, let the world fall away.
Step into a space where your relationship gets to be the priority.
Where your presence is enough.
Where your love remembers its pulse.
